If you’re a size queen then beauty pokes the eye of the holder, or something like that. As a general rule I’m not that bothered but I’m not going to complain if it turns out to be a whopper.
Thorny Sterling:
Since my husband has the only penis I’ve known in person (besides my own, obviously), all I can say is that the man’s got skills. He doesn’t need to be anything more than he is as far as my satisfaction is concerned. (And I’m bigger anyway.)
Edmond Manning:
Most guys fantasize big but can’t handle the reality. I am totally a size queen...not about length, but about heft, and how it feels in my hand and a beautifully-shaped head. Beautiful dick comes in many shapes. Is there such a thing as a *shape* queen?
Damon Suede:
Everything matters. Length. width, shape, texture, sensitivity, circumcision style, masturbation habits, testicle diameter/sensitivity/hang...you name it. No cock is the same as any other. Even identical twins, yo. And I speak from experience. :) But the real question I’d have to ask is: really matter for what? Girth is more useful when it comes to guaranteeing a prostate bludgeon with someone who’s not experienced at banging a butt. Length is more useful for things like blowing the guy you’re humping or 69ing. Nut size makes for the biggest baskets and the most extreme BJ possibilities, but they’re hell on athletes. Some of the hottest sex I ever had was with a boyfriend who had a 5-inch dick that he knew how to use like a goddamned Ninja. Some of the most boring sex of my life was with a trick who had a cock like a rolled newspaper which LITERALLY could not penetrate anything human. So yeah, everything matters.
D.H. Starr:
At the risk of sounding redundant...bravo Damon. I totally agree. I’ll say the best orgasms I ever had were with the guy with the biggest dick (length and girth) but once the relationship started to fail, it became harder (or not if I were to play on my own word choice) to reach orgasm because I wasn’t into the guy giving it to me. I’ve been with guys who are long and thin and they slide right in and feel like silk is being rubbed against my insides. I think it’s the emotions behind the guy topping you (or penetrating you) that makes for good or not so great sex.
Now, you know we want to know your thoughts. Is it the size or how they use it?
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My husband is not the biggest penis I have been with BUT he is the only one who can get me to orgasm during penetration. So I would have to go with the emotional connect + knows how to use what they have to get the best job done ;) And I agree that EVERYTHING matters. I am a bit on the small side (female bits here) so perhaps that has a bearing on things *shrug*.
ReplyDeleteDamon, you crack me up. You would be the best person in the world to sit down with and have a glass of wine...but then again it might come back out of my nose with whatever you would say next.
ReplyDeleteThe whole time I was reading this, I was singing Missy Elliott's Work It.
"If you got a big ***, let me search it
And find out how hard I gotta work ya."
Sex isn't always about size but how you work the length you are given. You can have the biggest penis in the world and if you can't work it then what's the point of having it? The biggest penis I ever saw I ran away from. LOL! Seriously, who needs something over 11 inches long? After a certain length it would just become painful.